Mary Carter

Mary Carter

Why Incredible Sex Starts Outside the Bedroom?

Things I'm discovering for myself.

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Mary Carter
Oct 04, 2025
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I thought foreplay was those 10 minutes before penetration.

I was completely wrong.

Foreplay starts after the last orgasm. And it continues all day long, every day.

This completely changed how I see sex.

Having a penis and having a vulva are radically different experiences when it comes to arousal.

If you have a penis and you get turned on, you’re ready. Erection, warmed up, prepared. The train is moving.

You have that animalistic desire and you want to go straight to it.

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