What If You Enjoy Painful Sex?

Can you answer this?

The first time someone choked you during sex, did you feel fear or relief?

Don’t lie.

There was a second, a single second, where your brain had to choose.

Panic or surrender. Resistance or dissolution.

And you chose the second. You knew you would.

There’s something deeply disturbing about that. And deeply honest.

We spend entire lives avoiding discomfort. W…