“WHY AREN’T YOU SAYING ANYTHING?!”
Have you heard this? Have you SCREAMED this?
I bet you have. From one side or the other.
And here’s the truth nobody tells you: it has nothing to do with gender.
It has to do with a broken remote control.
Since childhood you learn: I do X, I get Y.
Cry → hug Scream → attention
Silence → they chase me
Emotional remote control. …


