Don't hide your dark fetish.

What I learned from having the hardest conversation of my life.

We all have one.

That desire we keep tucked away in the back of our minds. The fantasy that feels too weird, too specific, maybe too "dark" to share.

The thought that comes with an immediate fear:

"If he/she knew this, they would run."

And because of that fear, most of us choose silence.

We choose a partial intimacy, a fragile peace built on omissions. And…